Joanna Fortune: How can I prepare my children to meet their dad's new partner? 

"Co-parenting in a connected and collaborative way isn’t easy, but it is the greatest gift you will give your children."
Joanna Fortune: How can I prepare my children to meet their dad's new partner? 

It is worth noting that children will often choose to discuss changes with their other parent (you in this instance), and as such, if he can let you know what he has said to them and how, then you can mirror the message so your children are hearing a clear and consistent message from you both.

My husband and I split up two years ago. He has since met another woman, and they are planning to move in together soon. We have two children under the age of six. What can I do to prepare them for the new set-up when they have a sleepover at their dad’s place? I’ve tried to discuss it with him, but he says it has nothing to do with me.

He may feel that he doesn’t need to discuss his relationship with you or the decision to live with his partner, which is reasonable. However, he does need to discuss the children you share and how any such decisions may affect them. 

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